i want my boyfriend to get rid of his dog

I do agree with you as far as how a couple individually interacts with a pet. Destructiveness is also one of the main reasons why some people need to get rid of their dogs. My wife blames my 13 month pitt for everything that is chewed up regardless of where its laying at. We had discussed very thoroughly prior to living together that the house will need to be cleaned often and upkept to minimize as much as possible the hair. Its embarrassing, humiliating, and I cant understand it at all. As stated before I just believe in general moat dogs need that training and need it before its too late and if you cant fork the money up to pay for its training then youre really at a crossroad just like me. Me and my boyfriend have been living together for a year. Ive never seen so many dogs with behavior issues, anxiety and destructiveness and almost all of them started out with a single person! I cant stay in the kitchen (where they stay) because they bother me. Hire a dog walker: Hiring a dog walker to lessen his workload is a good idea. I have a king size bed so Im not even aware of him as he pretty much sleeps at the foot of the bed. After i gave them up i immediatly started having resentment towards my fiances dog. (But I wouldnt recommend doing so). He lied about liking animals and expects me to comply with his demand of putting them in a shelter, or else. I think if your boyfriend isnt willing to work with your feelings and change some of his dogs behaviors (and his own), then maybe you wont ever truly have the loving relationship you deserve. The dogs have never been vaccinated, dont get flea treatments or anti worm treatments and are taking up the entire couch and other human furniture and everything is covered in hair. Just like it would be a mistake to get involved with someone with children who hates hates hates children. Your right.. In any case, Ive chosen moving out. I hate them. No amount of combing or baths on one of our hairy dogs can help her stinking or shedding. They cannot talk. If you dont set limits, the dog thinks its a pack leader. The episode featured a family (husband, wife, 2 teenage kids) and their Pomeranian. Im want him to be happy but not at the expense of being held captive & having these dogs thrust upon me. Weve kept him in a kennel before, but hes chewed on it and rammed into it with his head enough that its broken and he can break out. I was utterly devastated. But, I highly recommend you consult a dog behaviorist prior to meeting a relationship advisor. I must also add that over the past 6 months I have grown very much attached to his cat. I felt exactly the same way, and loved my boyfriends dog before we actually moved in together. I absolutely LOATHE our dog. That is why Im so frustrated about my situation. Why would anyone want to be with someone like that, pets or no pets? I cant relax in the lounge room because of dog flatulence and I am frowned upon for commenting about the smell. Yet he insisted on us dating. My advice is to really understand what dogs entail before cohabitation. Am i in the wrong? He rarely listens to my fianc. He has been good with many things we have compromised. Could it be that it is really not as bad as you describe since you are still living there with him and his pets? Enough for another day. Its better to keep him in a place where easily cleanable. In February, we bought our dream house. I dont even understand her attachment to this animal, unlike many of you have stated your partners are very affectionate with their pets. It justs neverending. Everything revolves around this dog. I was wondering if youve found any good solutions.? Hes a good dog but senses that my husband doesnt like him so hes afraid of him. But he cant sit on the porch and stare inside. He barked back as if he was getting murdered. They are not. Yikes Alisa. If the dog cant be cured, and is posing a danger to you and others, then it is right to take a stand. I have two daughters, 13 & 11. He wont listen to him and its making the situation worse! I lied to my spouse that I was crying for another reason so another dog fight did not occur. If you say something they call you a jerk. You grieve and then another little personality comes into your life, but suicide? Commitment to do dogs ummm what about the commitment to your spouseseriously wow. I dont even understand why she wants to keep it, she forgets to feed/water it at times. Its got to the point that he even argues with me about it and starts to yell. I admit I have also spent considerable time and energy to train them to live with us in harmony. You confirm that. Youd put an animal above a marriage? One time she pooped on my daughters bed near her pillow. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. He keeps going on about how the dog is older and has always been by his side, I seriously can never win! She could have gotten any other breed but it HAD TO be a bulldog! Not to mention how unsanitary it is. The other issue is she is so lazy with him. By rejecting non-essential cookies, Reddit may still use certain cookies to ensure the proper functionality of our platform. 5. His dog gets sick also, it throws up every now & then. Almost every person posting here that suffers from a dog fanatic describes the same problem: none seem hate dogs (though weve been accused of it by the ones we love) but they do hate how their significant others treat dogs. I think it is absolutely disgusting. The first months he really kept saying how he missed his dogs which always made me feel I dont matter. I dont want the responsibility of training the animals and feel no affection for them though I tolerate them and do want to make sure they are fed and not neglected. Visit a shelter "just for fun.". He is a dog owner himself, but has always adopted older animals, so he has never dealt with the puppy stage. The dirty paw prints all over the home also add to my irritation. I dont want to over think this again. They dont act out of jealousy or spite or anger, or do anything on purpose to get at you. It is beyond their capacity to feel that way. Then suddenly, he brings he dog to the new house!! One of them is very dominant and a bully to the other one, most of the time, which can be very frustrating. Thats what Im saying. He pays more attention to the dog than our baby. And we have now been fighting constantly for a month now just about Bobbi! Trying to force me into doing these things with threats and a bunch of sh*t talking to me. Your spouse should be priority #1 without question unless kids are involved then the kids are first priority. He just flat out hates them. He has boundaries and is well excerised. Shes kind of mean to him tells me things like your dog is gross when hes licking himself between the legs (well, thats what dogs do). IMO, dogs are meant to live with families and do better in environments where they are allowed some independence and interaction with more than just one person. Yes, seriously. Cats are manageable they manage themselves. Fine. But, it is still his dog and he is the one that gets to make that final decision, not you. The fact is, its not the dog. And jetaime, it only gets worse. My now husband and I began dating 3 years ago, he knew I had the dog, was fine with it, bought it toys, etc. I just changed my entire life for this man and dont want to lose him or my dog advice anyone ??? If she didnt get her way, shed start washing her private area for a very, very, long time. It sounds like your husband has not taken the needed time to properly train his dog. For him, I tried it. I feel like Im watching over a two year old every day. In other words they just arrived without my agreement. Every single day I cringe coming home to a smelly, hairy home. I have recently been given an ultimatum to give up him or the dogs. You get the point. As everyone agrees, this small nip never gonna draw blood. A dog should be a part of a family, and it is unfair for the dog to be unwanted. If thats not what you wanted to hear then alternatively, you could just come home with two puppies one day (because he said you couldnt get A DOG) and tell him to deal with it.. I do not mind dogs at all! They cannot make plans with you like a person can. And beau can sense it. So I caved. Having a dog has been romanticized in American culture, and is depicted on tv as this wonderful experience, where the dog does as its told, is an ever faithful companion, and causes no problems to the household. As you all are probably aware theses types of dogs shed badly, he also smells, and he constantly in the way (when I am trying to get in my car with my toddler and infant.) I really dont even know where to start. Most of all, they are not allowed to be DOGS! I hate how they shed, how they smell-even when clean. Youre not crazy. Loyalty and being faithful is deeply embedded in my nature however and to be told in a blanket statement that all humans arent by someone who doesnt know me is incredibly rude. The problem isnt your dog its how you treat it. I tried talking to her and proposed putting my two dogs outside and not letting them inside but she said no without hesitating. And now I have no idea what happened. The dog begs at all meals or literally anytime you put something in your mouth, I seriously cannot take my birth control without the dog begging. Remember its your dogs not his. Hes started getting depressed because the dogs are more important than him, so I dont love him, after 32 years of marriage. My bofriend wanted me to move in. Dump him. I believe he got his dog to look posh. He compliments the dog and acts like its his actual girlfriend. Compromise. and I feel second to that dog. Just to note for you dog lovers out there (not meant in a derogatory way) the dog is just happy, didnt cry, moan or anything at all in the following nights which surprised her. No, you will not put my dog outside. She says she doesnt resent my animals but actions and snide comments made say otherwise. She has put a section of the room with pads on the floor so the dog can go there to pee while we are at work. the puppy sleeps with us and the ex get jeleous when puppy puts his head on me. That makes me wonder that this might not be the right guy for me. Says they are family members and hed a family member alive no matter what as well. I am seriously thinking of telling him to get lost because I dont need the constant complaining, especially since he has no control over his dog but ignores how well my dog listens. The dog will poo and pee, I refuse to live like that. He refuses to go to the bathroom unless its on his terms, so he wakes her parents up all through the night. She even barked when he kissed me. After a huge fight among many, I laid awake all night thinking I cant do this anymore. My husband and I have always had dogs, three of them due to the three children, you know how that goes. Sometimes I think Americans have went insane. I am seeking advice about a present situation I have with my spouse about his dog. If you call it barking. Chat with your vet: You need to ensure if there are any health-related issues going on here. My question to you is: Your pet surely is not a happy animal in his given situation. If you cant accept that sort of all-encompassing commitment then dont get a dog. It was wearing diapers for at least six months, walking into walls, it forgot who we were, forgot its name, and forgot any commands. I told her No! Could her dogs be spreading bacteria or viruses to my wife? His cat is out co control- Pees and poop outside the litter box and begs all day for food. Theyre revealing their true colours now. I also said that i dont want to buy all this new stuff only for them to go and ruin it. With all due respect your familys safety is a million times more important than having to live with the odd discord of fitting in a hyper ear piercing farm animal that is unpredictably unsafe into your family home. This brings me to the current day. All controlling? Going to dog training as a couple (although the dog owner should pay for it, lol) is a priceless experience and will change your life. IMO cooking for your dog is a little over the top and Id be annoyed by it too. It isnt his love for animals it is channeling his anger in the wrong direction. Leaving my work, school, friends, and family behind to follow him and his new job in Texas. Its good that there are normal dog owners like you. She is putting her family first, but still valuing her pets. So Im not a cruel person and I have loved the dogs and cats Ive owned in the past. Now onto our 2nd dog. I always knew the high likelihood of out living my pets and it was always hard for me to say goodbye. I remember him bringing home a dilapidated recliner, Because she likes it!, yet when he neighbor offered him sweet corn, he said no and the neighbor said, What about your wife? That was my life. i cannot stand this animal. One time he was reflecting. Improving my relationship and building it is already work so I do not need a dog who will not listen and act out. They may be old dogs but he wants them around so hell likely get more dogs once these die and they would be younger for more years of pain. He has an English bulldog that is 6 years old and that Ive just grown to dislike over the years. I cannot tolerate it. My boyfriend cant stand me saying anything either..TODAY the freakin thing jumped up on my rocking chair & it was rubbing itself all over it. heaven forbid you eat something !! End the relationship before opting for violence!!! He ran and she chased him. Well I was floored when I heard this has she says one thing like how can you get rid of the puppies and then say something like above. I get angry because I expect all the attention to be in me. The only problem is he is also a huge shedder which wasnt a problem before I got married because my Husky had a lovely home outside the house, until after I got married and my husband who is 50x times the animal lover than I am decided that its too cold in California for my husky to live outside he should move inside, it was hard for me to accept the work that was heading in front of me with the my darling husky moving inside and the heap of hair that will be coming into the house. My boyfriend will get up off the couch just to see is beau is staring inside. Give me a break! The dogs were all rescued one at a time. thats saying a lot because I dont believe the people here they act like its so easy to find a mate and it isnt! I can totally tolerate a child more than this dog. I have an African Grey and my sinned deceased husband had 2 blue & gold macaws. She said she would compromise and not let the dog on human spaces. I have family member with dogs, and non of their dogs are behaving in a way that these 2 do. My husband never picks up their poop outside, because he thinks its gross to grab it with a bag. Im not opposed to the dog, i actually like him, but the sleeping arrangement is troublesome for me. There is NO downtime. And she sheds alot! My boyfriend brang home a 3 month old bitbull puppy female. If you endeavor with a strong mind, you will be able to turn this offensive dog into an affectionate, kind to kids, loving canine. Shes sometimes peeing in the bed or pooping on the floor even tho she was outside but I always told myself her behavior is like that because of her negative past. I am so glad that I bumped into this forum. As for our brains vs a dogs, oh my goodness. My marriage is bad right now bc of the dog. The dogs will probably always come first. I live on 5 acres and have plenty of room. I hope she knows she will always be my girl and no man will ever change that. Those people with like, 4 German Shephards and a few cats too. We do sleep in the same bed, but when she came, she began sleeping in the room with us. My pet would have came after the 2nd call or knew I would punish them. I want both of my boys happy and it breaks my heart to see them hate each other. The shelters are full of them. My boyfriend, let's call him Steve, is a dog lover. Neither of us can fix it. I do not like dogs, never will.. Needy pathetic, whiny, annoying little jerks. If Id known this from the start of my marriage I could have accepted it and possibly reconciled myself to never owning a dog I love all animals, and Id still be able to have pets of some sort but to build my hopes up over 8 years and then suddenly refuse to even consider my wish seems totally unfair to me. He licks himself all day and that bathroom smells so bad I cant stand going in there. Yet its driven him homeless over and over few will rent out their properties to dog owners. I love bigger dogsand a lab is a great family dog. Its fantasy to think otherwise. Its hard to throw a marriage away because of this, only you will know whats best for you. Then I asked if he had to choose between me and the dog he said the dog. I may sound angry right now because i am. Thats a major issue that has to do with your anger. However this shit is overwhelming!!! Hopefully she can help me get through this. [Nutritional Info], Read This If You Cant Sleep Without Your Dog [5 Tips], Read This If You Dont Have Time For Your Dog. Im standing firm & want him to go to my therapist with me so perhaps she can explain it to him better than I am. Yes we talked about it. Its becoming a problem I really hate this dog :-(. Im an elctrician and have loads contact with people, but am completely trapped have no freinds as my wife was always number one, only moved to australia 5 years ago and in big trouble emotionaly wise. Hire a dog trainer: If your husband/boyfriend is about to get rid of the dog, first you need to chat with him and get another month of time to correct the behavior. i would say NAH. My partner and I have been living together for a year now. So happy she was understanding and accommodating. But as I said, equally you have a responsibility to ensure that your dog behaves properly and listens to and respects your partner, AND other people. Mid January, we adopted a shelter dog. It was a very easy life to live with him and I loved him very much! Things are getting bad. We recently moved out but only temporarily, we are doing friends a favour and staying in their house until is is sold, as it is for sale. Here are why your dog might pee inside the house. I have problems with depression, chronic pain, etc. That part has changed as he literally broke us financially. Wow this post has really made me feel like I am not alone anymore with this issue! Recently married to a wonderful man, baby girl on the way and currently living the life in a wonderful relationship except one thing His dog. If one makes it a human and the other as a pet animal it will never work. I want to find the dog a new home while my boyfriend is in love with the dog and wants to keep her even though hes at work all day and only sees her at night for a couple hours. If you want to change the way you do something with your petsfor example, allowing Fido to sleep in the bed or taking more frequent walks with your pet and your partnertalk to your partner before taking the plunge rather than making a decision and expecting him or her to abide by it. I met my boyfriend several months ago, and we only just recently started dating. I am a light sleeper and cannot sleep with snoring (she is a pug and snores quite loud), not to mention Ive never liked having a dog sleep in my room. I said the same verbiage with my ex, discussing someone else, and she thought that sounded like I hated dogs even though Ive owned in the past! Your dog being in the kitchen is worth more to you than a human relationship? I have to lint roll my entire outfit before I leave for work in the morning when i stay at his house. She will grab food off the kitchen table while my kids are eating. Most arguments over pets come from the primary owner making excuses for them. Ive read quite a few of your posts and I feel that mine situation is not as harsh as all of yours. If he doesnt get his way? He said he couldnt relax in his own home whilst we had a cat. I use to say to those around me, Looks like Buffy decided to go to bed. Period! Finally I was able to get a good night sleep without those dogs jumping on and off the bed, and dirty smell everywhere. Im sticking to my guns. How ridiculous for a person to not like a certain dog. I can tell she isnt happy with the dog there, with the way life is. when he went to look at the puppies before we got the dog i kept saying to him no dogs but he never listened , he is caged while we are at work and the other day he didnt lock him up and you guess it he had weeweed in 5 different places around the house. I have been an asthmatic all my life and have many medications because of it. It got jealous and chased away your partner. I gently nudged it off, because there werent room for the two of us, and it attacked me. He has arthritis really bad where you can see he is in discomfort and even when he drinks or eats, he cant stand up perfectly straight. It also shows a man how you may treat a child if you have one, thats not good. He still lived with his family. I am indeed a cat person, they are more solitary dont hold you not being home a long period of time against you and can go potty on their own. It is okay for your nasty thing to disturb ME and the NEIGHBORHOOD. I completely broke down in tears. I can completely relate. Its also not my concern thank god. Your husband sounds controlling with no give or take on your pet. I would have put up with the other two cats. I have always been an animal lover and had several pets growing up. Later I said, hed save me and blame me for the dog dying. I hope those of you on here are able to come to some sort of resolution for your issues. I knew he was cuddling her and letting her lick his lips. I was irritated and so was he. I keep telling myself that the novelty of having the dog will wear off and he will soon be back to giving me the kisses and cuddlesbut its hard to sit back and wait till that happens, and what if it doesnt. I have to somehow not find all their annoying habits annoying. My leather sofa was covered with a twin comforter. You can ask your friends ask their family and close ones whether they need to adopt your dog because giving the dog to someone you already know is better. I feel more secure and protected. I know he loves the dog and so do I. I have no idea what to do at this point. How does a person get to the point where they are more affectionate toward an animal then their spouse. I guess my advice is to ride it out because its not for forever. At the beginning, I was cool with the idea of the dog, he is placid, relaxed but at times, can be annoying (begs at you all the time), will jump on the bed and lounge when Im not there ect. Here it is at 4 in the morning and Beau just got up out of his bed for some reason and his nails were clicking on the hardwood floor. They require more time and work than I want to give. Quite high and mighty of you to push your own agenda of what you consider to be normal. On these dog nuts. Simply because it was how you were raised yet by nature humans are in no way monogamous creatures and thus we are not bound by our instincts to stay together. My boyfriend is constantly telling him to go lay down and go play and Beau just always cowers and walks away with his tail between his legs. you dont want the dog becoming agressive..thats responsible of you.men are so selfish.maybe he got the dog to try to make u jealous and since youre bonding with the dog it upsets him.i cant say what the best thing to do is but i would take the dog and leave.lol.in my case my husband had this totally spoiled bad mannered rescued dog that he knew was abusd and wasnt right in the head from before we met..i guess it filled a void of lonliness in his life but he didnt try to train it and just allowed it to have free run of everything it was agressive before he got it and he did nothing to retrain it..ive never felt safe around the dog because i have kids.anything i tried to do to train the dog he undid by allowing the dog to disobey me and even run me out of our bed at night..letting it continue to be a god walking among mortalssigh..i kept telling him i dont feel safe ..if youre not going to help me retrain the dog then it needs to be rehomed because its not safe around kids and youre not helping me any progress i make is undermined..he accused me of hating the dog even said i wanted it dead..that was not ever what i wanted.he put the safety of our kids second to his spoiled bad petyet he refused to take any time with the dog to help re train himi posted here looking for advice last week..i felt this dog would harm one of my kids eventually because it nips playfully and my husband never took my concerns seriouslytwo days ago the unthinkable happened ..the dog jumped out and bit my two year old in top of the head for no reason what so ever and as fast as i could move it was unstoppable..im just glad i got to him in time before it was worsebut my poor baby was mortified bleeding screaming it was awful..the wound is small but still if he is capable of that he will do it again and im jot willing to take that chance plus im pregnant too and i never wanted this dog around my babies especially a newborn..i kept being brushed aside like my concerns were a jokenow my baby has a wound that we have to watch for signs of infection..thank god its not serious but it drew blood and that was the last strawi told him this is it the dog must go or i willand even faced with pictures of what his dog did he was in denial about how bad this animal ishe made excuses like well maybe we should have walked him more or maybe the baby scared him what did the baby do for him to bite her.nothing.she did nothing. Each member has a priority level on this pack. Id volunteered to look after a friends puppy for them, a sweet 14 week old cocker/poodle cross. After I got married, my husband decided that he needed a dog as well so he brought home a St Bernard puppy that is now a 3 year old, 160 lb drool machine. I dont know what to do this dog is nice (I guess) but has flaws that far outweigh the positives Its beginning to tear my girlfriend and I apart because I cant grow to like this dog I know its probably selfish of me, but I cant snap out of this attitude. I received pictures every week and I can see by her sleeping posture that she is both happy and comfortable. and please, dont try to say my dog doesnt smell or have fleas etc. I would rather see the dog go to another home. Try daycare. Why on earth would she even allow an argument to start over this. i can understand not wanting the dog in bed. You trying to manipulate death only imposes on yourself and those who love you. Its the worst thing ever. Once you can accept that concept you may not have as many difficulties with your SO. In fact, giving less attention to the dog all of a sudden can lead to a number of psychological issues. Do it by yourself. I mean, he will come up to me after waking up maybe an hour or two after I have already woken and says he was on the bed and smirks about it like its a joke. He also has this really sweet tempered dog that he adores. In real life however, and especially in terms of relationships between humans, there is no quick-acting elixir or love potion to fix relationship woes. I complete understand your point! Then slowly move onto the dog bed by itself and reward him when he stays. I have wondered if Im going to keep the relationship. Actually, here is why your husband/boyfriend wants to rehome the dog? Now I demanded some things change, whereas before he was able to do whatever and be left alone the dog came into this house pooping everywhere, being defiant, acting super and extra needy, etc. I feel for you, I really do. If I say they need put to sleep he gets extremely upset and wont hear of it. I finish feeding the baby, my husband gets up as I am burping him, and goes into the section of the house where the dog is confined to. I can certainly feel your pain. when this happens then the child also feels like the animals needs are more important. Sometimes you cant have it all. Which ended up in a giant arguement of me supposedly not loving her or respecting her because I stated I no longer would take care of her dog. So occasionally he has/had an accident. He was nasty to her at times, but I chalked it up to the fact that my dog had a different daddy before him (hahaha). 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